The problem with religion

A couple of years ago a friend and I from bible school were visiting his family in south Texas for the weekend. Sunday morning we planned on meeting his parents for church, but my friend had never been so he wasn’t sure exactly where it was. We ended up pulling up to an old white church with a big steeple. We walked in immediately and realized we probably weren’t in the right place.

Everyone in the place stared at us like we were aliens. It was hilarious, every man was wearing a suit and all the women had their hair in a bun and dresses down to the floor. My friend and I were wearing t-shirts, jeans full of holes and flip flops. We decided to stay, uncomfortably and then for the next hour were shouted at about how hot hell was and how we better repent of all our sins and get our lives right with Jesus before we start burning!

I thought I might light on fire right in my seat the way those people were looking at me.

My friend and I laughed it off as we ran out the church, but when did our outfits start determining our spiritual condition?

There is a real God doing beautiful things and there is a Church full of people passionate about the way of Jesus. I am not writing about the real church, but the impostors. There is an institution called church full of empty religion. It’s time we make that distinction very clear.

Have you ever felt disillusioned by churches? Have you seen the binding rules, the obligations, the empty rituals and thought this is what church is?

Have you seen people stand up and speak in the name of Jesus but sound nothing like him? People have preached many sermons, fought many wars and killed many people in the name of God. For many centuries, in cultures and regions the name of Jesus has been misrepresented, exploited and abused.

If you have seen the signs held high that God hates fags, greedy televangelist lining their pockets with money, corruption, scandals and oppression for those outside the group you have not encountered the message of Jesus but the cheap substitute called religion.

Religion murdered the Native Americans, molested children and killed Jesus. People and text books assumed Jesus was master minding the atrocities we have encountered and seen over the centuries.  We thought Jesus was on the churches side of the battlefield but we were wrong; he was with the “enemy”. Jesus was with the ones we oppressed.

Jesus never came to set up a political or religious system. He didn’t want to make Christianity the national religion, we did. Systems we create always have to have an enemy, someone to oppress. It used to be the Muslims, the Jews; the Salem witches or anyone who opposed the church.

Today it’s the liberals, or the gays or the abortion advocates or the atheist.

I was religious, probably up until 3 weeks ago. I remember going to church, reading my bible, trying to not sin and feeling so empty. I remember feeling angry at God because I was seeing all this crap in the church and seeing fake people doing things that were so shady. I started blaming God or wanting to check out because it was all so fake and phony.

But looking back, God had nothing to do with it. Along the way, I had lost sight of God and grabbed onto something else that appeared to be the same. Religion tends to look a lot like what Jesus is about. That’s how someone can go to a lot of churches their whole lives and never look anything like Jesus.

Religion likes when we talk about the bible or Christianity as long as we don’t act like Jesus. Religion wants us to go to church, but not encounter God. It’s all the principles or programs but none of the power.

Stop getting duped, God and religion do not have the same agenda.

When we force our message through condemnation, guilt, fear or politics we have joined a religious movement. When people become the target of our hate or scorn, when anyone who opposes our way or agenda becomes our enemy we have become a religious mob.

Jesus never forced his way, demanded his rights, fought for his agenda. He did not hate those who persecuted him, fight back or seek revenge.

Religion can hate people Jesus will not.

Religion can kill people Jesus will save.

Religion can oppress, confuse, abandon, hurt, deceive, and disillusion us but Jesus,

He will make you whole.

It’s time.

Turn your eyes back to Jesus.

9 Responses to “The problem with religion”

  1. Yo Nate,
    Good article! Glad to see you are updating this site.
    It is funny how the institutions of Christianity has changed over the years. There is no way of denying that all the major religions have caused a large amount of terrible acts. In that I would include science based religion (or maybe philosophy is a better term) which takes no god into account. Such world views such as social Darwinism have also had there share of “ethnic cleaning” to do. Regardless of the motivation, I think the key is that one basic principle is either lost, or simply not believed in the first place. That is to love everybody. From the Christian perspective, it seems easy to see how Christ loved everybody, regardless of there attitudes or actions. If we all did the same, this world would be a very different place.

  2. That was way cool! Jesus came for Restoration :-)

  3. Nate,

    Don’t mess with Texas! haha… that’s funny coming from a Cali man. Good points bro. I completely agree.

  4. I found your blog on google and read a few of your other posts. I just added you to my Google News Reader. Keep up the awesome work Look forward to reading more from you in the future.

  5. Ileen Byers says:

    THAT WAS GOOD READING. ENJOYED THIS SITE…YOU NEED TO TAKE YOUR PREACHING ON THE ROAD….THE ROAD THAT LEADS TO MICHIGAN??? LOVE FEELING THE LOVE YOU HAVE FOR JESUS. HE IS COMING SOON!!!! PRAISE THE LORD!

    • I would love to come up, you get me the preaching gig and I’ll get the ticket…haha.

      Thanks for the encouragement and for reading : )

  6. Good stuff Nate! This is one thing that really really bugs me……”religiousness” in the church. Shallow judgment going on where only God should be the Judge. My hubby got ‘talked’ to by people in the church when he got a mohawk (this was a while back). somehow it wasn’t christian? Tell me, how does a haircut determine whether or not you love Jesus?? HAHA, craziness!!

    • Yeah, that is unfortunate. There are people in the church who don’t understand the gospel. The gospel is about an inward change, not an external conformity. I think a lot of churches get this, but some, unfortunately preach a different message.

      It is our love for one another that is proof of our salvation, not our hair style or dress code.

      Great point!

  7. Thanks alot – your answer solved all my probelms after several days struggling

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